Quinn (Part I)

I was looking in a mirror, combing my hair and thinking of Quinn, when the bedroom door opened and mom walked in.
“Turn that music down,” she said, then added in the same breath, “You’re not wearing that tonight, aren’t you?”
“Did you forget to knock my door, mom?” I said “And what’s wrong with what I’m wearing? Or the music?”
“They’re both morbid.” She replied, picking fluff from my jacket. “when I was 17, I played dance records and wore party clothes on a Saturday night.”
“Oh, come on, mom. That was a long time ago. And you know what? We are not going to a party.” I sat on the edge of my bed and put my shoes on. “We’re going to see a film. A film with this morbid music.”
“Sounds a bundle of laughs.” She commented, running her hand down the back of my head. “Who you going with?”
“Mom, don’t mess my hair up.” I complained, pulling away. “why do people have to keep touching?” I stood up. “How do I look?”
“Terrible. Like you’re going to a funeral. Why wear black all the time?”
“It makes my body looks better, my teeth whiter, and my skin brighter, an.. Oh yes! I like it! Next question.”
“Why’s the music so loud?”
“Oh, just listen to it, mom.” I turned the volume up even more as the chorus came in. “Isn’t that wonderful?”
Mom looked unconvinced. “What’s the film about?”
“Horror.” I replied. “About a beast. Hell, a huge hairy beast comes down to earth and kidnap a child or something. I bet it’s gonna be awesome.”
“How do you know? You haven’t even seen the film yet.”
“I just know.” I told her. “I’ve loved everything about monster or something like that so far. Just the title alone is magic: Creature Of The Night. What words! I can’t wait to see hat film.” I turned the music off, pushed past mom and out of the bedroom.
My older brother was in his room with his girlfriend. His door, as usual, was wide open. They were feeling eac other’s fingers.
“I’m going.” I said.
“Your music made the walls shake!” My brother shouted. “Why does the who;e house have to hear your shit?”
“Why do I have to see yours?” I yelled back. “You should close your door. Snogging in front of everyone. It’s disgusting!”
My brother was getting to his feet. Fist clenched. Eyes glaring.
“No fighting, kids.” Mom said, shutting his door. “Don’t start a fight. They’re in love.”
“He started it.” I insisted, going downstairs.
Mom followed, picking my jacket. “You got your inhaler?” She asked.
“There’s no room for my inhaler.” I replied. “It will ruin my style, and it makes my pocket bulge.”
“What if you have an asthma attack?”
“Then I’ll die.” I said, giving myself one last look in the hallway mirror. “At least, I’ll be dressed for it.”
“Don’t joke about things like tat. That’s not funny.” Mom warned, then added. “You still haven’t told me whoyou’re going with?”
“A girl.”
“What girl?”
“Quinn.”
“Oh, the one who’s been ringing so much. She sounds nice. I had a long chat with her.”
“When?” I demanded.
“When she phoned the other day.”
“What did you talk about?”
“You.”
“What did you tell her?”
“What a loving little boy you were.”
“I don’t want her to know things about me. I ‘ve only known her for a month.” I said.
“I think she loves you.”
“Are you kidding? No way.” I kissed her on the cheek, and went outside. I saw dad was sitting in front of TV. He was asleep.
“Tell dad I said goodbye.”I said, opening the street door.
Quinn was in her red car. She had been there since  a couple minutes ago. She wound down her window and said hello. Not for me, but to my mom. I got in the car as quickly as possible and waved the cinema tickets in the air. “We’ll be late,” I warned. “The doors open at half past eight.”
“But the film won’t start until nine.” Quinn said.
“But I want to see tho trailers!”
Quinn looked up at mom, “Everything has to be done his way.” She said.
“Always been the same.” Mom told her.
“I admit it. I love my boyfriend just the way he is...”
“Hurry up!” I demanded.
The car pulled away.
“I wanted to talk to your mom.” Quinn moaned.
“Why?” I asked. “You’re going with me, not her. And don’t call me your boyfriend. I hate  all those labels and things.”
“What are you afraid of?”
“I’m not afraid of anything.” I calmed down a little. “I’m really looking forward to the film.”
“Yes, so am I.” Quinn said. “And now for the good news, mom and dad are out all night. You can spend all night not being my boyfriend if you like.”
“Fine,” I said. “just hope you’ve got some chocolate biscuits in the fridge, that’s all.”
“That’s all you want from me. Chocolate biscuits. Oh, and my car of course!”
We walked in to the theatre, Quinn held my arm. The poster image was huge above the cinema entrance. I had to stand there for a while, just staring. The crowd bustled round me. Quinn tugged at my sleeve. “We going in or what?” She asked/
“Just look at that!” I exclaimed. “What an image!”
“Forget the image!” She said. “I’m still trying to work out with the titles means.”
“It’s quite clear! Creature Of The Night!” I said.
“That’s what I mean. What kind of creature? The first thing that popped in my head was a vampire or zombie or what so ever! But, look at that poster! A hairy monster? Come on! It’s so classic!” She said.
“Ah, just forget it. Just watch the film, and you’ll know how cool it is!” I said. “What do you want? Soft drink?”
“I want some popcorn.” She replied
“Are you going to eat during the film? No way!”
“But I aways have some popcorn in the back row.”
“We’re not sitting in the back row.” I told her.
She stared at me. There were tears in her eyes now. I would have comforted her, but I could hear the trailers starting.
“Get your popcorn!”

To Be Continued...

5 simple rules

God didn't promise days without pain, laughter without sorrow, sun without rain, but He did promise strength for the day, comfort for the tears, and light for the way.

Disappointments are like road humps, they slow you down a bit but you enjoy the smooth road afterwards. Don't stay on the humps too long. Move on!

When you feel down because you didn't get what you want, just sit tight and be happy, because God is thinking of something better to give you.

When something happens to you, good or bad, consider what it means. There's a purpose to life's events, to teach you how to laugh more or not to cry too hard.

You can't make someone love you, all you can do is be someone who can be loved, the rest is up to the person to realize your worth.

The measure of love is when you love without measure. In life there are very rare chances that you'll meet the person you love and loves you in return. So once you have it don't ever let go, the chance might never come your way again.

It's better to lose your pride to the one you love, than to lose the one you love because of pride.

We spend too much time looking for the right person to love or finding fault with those we already love, when instead we should be perfecting the love we give.

When you truly care for someone, you don't look for faults, you don't look for answers, you don't look for mistakes. Instead, you fight the mistakes, you accept the faults, and you overlook the excuses.

Never abandon an old friend. You will never find one who can take his place. Friendship is like wine, it gets better as it grows older.

Remember the five simple rules to be happy:

1. Free your heart from hatred.
2. Free your mind from worries.
3. Live simply
4. Give more.
5. Expect less.

No one can go back and make a brand new start. Anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending.

Being Strict or Lenient with Children


     Every parents have their own styles to treat their children. They can be strict parents or lenient parents. These two ways are different in cause, method, and effect to the children. Strict is one of parenting styles in which parents have too much controls over or demands on their children. The cause of this kind of parenting style is maybe because of the cultural traditions of parents. Parents grew up in a family with a high discipline style. For example, a dad who came from a military style with a high discipline lifestyles will treat his children with the same way like the way how his father used to treat him when he was young. The method that strict parents usually use is set too many rules. They set a lot of rules about personal issues. For example, a strict dad pushes his son to join the army and bans his son to join the school band. Strict parents will never listen to their children, because they always think that whatever they do is right and there is no exception about it. This parenting style will give some bad effects to the children, especially their behavior. Basically, there are two possibilities about the behavior of the children who have strict parents. They will be coward or rude. The children who develop rudeness will behave in the rough manner and they will forget about humanity when they feel tensed. If this behavior is developed within them, then it cannot be changed easily.


    On the other hand, lenient is a parenting style in which parents have few controls over or demands on their children. The cause of this kind of parenting style is  maybe because of the parents’ trauma of their childhood. Lenient parents are usually the children of strict parents. When they were young, they felt uncomfortable with how their parents treated them. They felt that they couldn’t be someone they wanted to be, if their parents involved too much in their own life. So, because of it, the lenient parents do not want to make the same mistake like what their parents did in the past. They will let their children do whatever their children want to do without any behavioral expectations for them. These parents are more concerned with being friends for their children. They afraid that the children will rebel against them if they are too hard on them. This kind of parenting style will give some bad effects. The children who have lenient parents are more likely to be impulsive and they can become a drug user or alcoholic. It is because they know that they will not be punished if they get caught. The worse is, they will have unrealistic self-esteem and always blame others for their own mistakes. When it comes to the effects, being strict can be a better choice for parents. They can control their children’s life, so their children will not be a drug user or alcoholic.